Quote I loved:
Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom.Theodore Isaac Rubin
Tools and gear for the distributed:
Lots of good stuff (published by the company I work for) from folks that have been working in a fully-distributed fashion for years.
Also very-related and useful is this summary for headsets and advice for online meetings.
One heterodox recommendation I have for audio and video calls when you’re working in a distributed fashion is not to mute, if you can help it. When you’re speaking to a muted room, it’s eerie and unnatural — you feel alone even if you can see other people’s faces.
Approaching your computer time (or phone time) intentionally:
A good reminder, because this topic always needs reminding.
Ultimately this is about you. You need to approach your computer, and other devices, as a tool for accomplishing a specific job, then be intentional about using it for that job. It’s a skill, and learning it takes time.
Still enjoying making mini-zines:
What if aliens visited in the midst of coronavirus?
A book excerpt i enjoyed:
“Work hard, work passionately, but apply your most precious asset-time-to what is most meaningful to you. What are you willing to do for the rest of your life? does not mean, literally, what will you do for the rest of your life? That question would be absurd, given the inevitability of change. No, what the question really asks is, if your life were to end suddenly and unexpectedly tomorrow, would you be able to say you’ve been doing what you truly care about today? What would you be willing to do for the rest of your life? What would it take to do it right now?” (Randy Komisar, The Monk and the Riddle)
Some words of wisdom to ponder:
From a recent Recomendo newsletter, these have stuck with me.
- “If all you did was just looked for things to appreciate, you would live a joyously spectacular life.” ― Esther Abraham Hicks
- “Let go or be dragged.” — Zen Proverb
- “Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways.” — Glennon Doyle Melton
- “”No.” is a complete sentence.“ — Unknown
What I’m grateful for:
- Sam’s updates on the last hours’ activities when I come out of the office to grab a coffee or snack. “Daddy, we just saw a poisonous caterpillar outside!”
- The early spring weather. Still cold but the long days and warm sun are a godsend at this point.
- My afternoon walks and adventures with the kids. We literally spent an hour playing on hills of rocks in the back of the farm where we live. It was our favorite activity last week.
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